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Does he really shut off his feelings after a breakup?
Does he really shut off his feelings after a breakup?
One of the most frustrating things a woman experiences post breakup is the man that said only a week ago he loved her, now is cold and distant. How can he shut off his feeling like that so quickly? She asks. She begins to think he really didn't care at all.
Well not true at all. He isn't cold and didn’t wake up one day and decide he lost all feelings of love. It has more to with the way he processes his feelings. He will detach from his feelings to process them. Women process as we feel them. Men on the hand have to process by detaching, then slowly processing, like a delayed reaction. He really isn't that cold and his feelings aren’t really all dead.
This will give some women hope in some cases of a chance of reconciliation. He may say move on or he is done, however chances are he is just detaching and then will be processing. Since he is not attached to how he really feels in his heart at the moment, and attached to the fact he has lost belief in the relationship, he will say negative things and push away. Loss of belief in relationship is not loss of love. However he may not realize the difference until he gets some time and space away from the relationship.
It is over and doesn't mean it is finito, it may just mean not right now!
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